6: Your Spouse Won’t Understand Me

If you are married, you may love your spouse intensely.  Many porn addicts do and are convinced that their secret habit is not a reflection of their lack of love.  It’s not that they think their spouses are hideous.  It’s not that they don’t enjoy sex with them (although porn damages that, too).  But try convincing her of that.  Try convincing her she’s beautiful and sexy when she sees what you’ve been doing.  Try convincing him you respect him when he finds out the other guys you’ve been with.  Porn will tear your spouse apart emotionally.  But porn never told you that.